Friday, December 18, 2009

concepts of happiness :-
As according to me many of thinks pleasure and happiness are the different side of a coin … I agree some of extent… but still thinks there is much difference between them… Pleasure in the life gain even the without having happiness in life. As Our senses feel the pleasure but they cannot lead us to happiness. Pleasure is external, while happiness is internal.
According to me every person on earth wants a happy life. But most of them in their real life is not happy. ,and up to some extent we only responsible of our own unhappiness. There are few things which, in my opinion, make our life happy. The first is health. I hear people saying. “When wealth is lost, nothing is lost, when health is lost, something is lost.” The loss of health makes us unhappy. The last words of one of the richest men of the world give us the idea of the importance of health. While dying he said. “I shall cheerfully give up my all if I can but enjoy a good meal.” The second important factor of happiness is peace and contentment. We should remain satisfied with what we have. A contented man never feels jealous of the wealth of others. Freedom from worries and anxieties leads us to happiness. A beggar living on alms he gets is happier than a rich man who rolls in wealth. Satisfaction is life and dissatisfaction is death. Social service is a third factor of happiness. In order to be happy we must have a spirit of social service. The strong should help the weak, and the rich should help the poor. All great men found peace and happiness in the social work. The religious and the pious life is the fourth factor of happiness. It gives us peace and happiness. Religion is the matter of heart and not of sense. A happy man is he who surrenders himself to God. Last but not the least is some noble work which gives us happiness. We should spend leisure hours in reading good books. We should develop tasts for artistic things like painting and music. These things will create atmosphere for true happiness.
Over all i can say BE HAPPY !! Hamesha Mast raho....!!

Monday, December 7, 2009

my school days




Every person has a unique experience and a story to tell about his school life and first day in school, and for that matter, passage through their student life. My story goes something like this. The first day I went to school was `D' day for me.
School life started when I joined the st. Marys convent school, when I was only 4 years old. For me, the school meant play, play, and more play. Instead of sitting in the classroom and learning something, I used to draw irrelevant things on my desks and my text books too…After a yr passed and I was in U.K.G. when we shifted to a shed class situated at an old building. In class I was scared of Shivajee mdm one of my subject teachers because she used to beat us very often. I was so scared and didn't want to go to school anymore. Eventually parents forced me to go school very strictly.
All these years of my school life, I have made many friends and they have helped me a lot in my academics. Many a time I used to fight with my friends. But, then I think that everything is fair in friendship. In my school life I am gifted with excellent class teachers and subject teachers. Especially my principal sister Scolastica, She was very soft spoken and kind hearted lady, she knew how to manage students very nicely. She was very careing and whole of us used to praise her like a god.still I missed her so much.My class mates always help me to cope with my notes whenever I was absent or fell ill. When I was in class six, I was just average in my academics as well as not much in extra curricular activities as I was too shying in nature. Then I put my feet on the 7th step of learning.
Growing and learning had been a great fun. Every year we were taken to different places on our school picnics. I was never able to go on to these excursion tours but I enjoyed every word of the stories told by my friends. When I was in class eight I used to go school by bicycle.. at that times having own bicycle was known to b great thing.Usally I became to late to reach home after my class times .. I liked to roam here and there especially in parks with my class mates….some times playing crickets , as I was very fond of cricket My friends and I played cricket in the school campus after the school got over. At the same time we all used to get lots of scolding from our principal.
Every Saturday we used to have our P.T. drill and frankly speaking, nobody in my class, even me, had ever liked this. As I reached class nine I realised that I should concentrate on my studies as the next year I was going to write my Board exams. And just after two yrs after passing twelth class my school life ended.whenever I recollect all these incidents of school life. I feel very happy and I think in everybody's school life there are many ups and downs that mould one's life. School is a place where all of us learn to care and share. "School" is just not a place, but it is a large dome made up of discipline, knowledge, love and affection. I think in everybody's success, school plays a key role.I'll always remember the good events and laugh, and the hard ones will only give me the strength, power and make me prepared for every hard thing I may face in the future

I can describe my school in "Three S's, they are: Small, Sweet and Simple। My school was the best, is the best and will be the best...!!


अर्ज़ हैं ....

याद आते हैं वो स्कूल के दिन ,
ना जाते थे स्कूल दोस्तों के बिन,
कैसी वो दोस्ती थी ,कैसा था वो प्यार ,
एक दिन जुदाई से डरते थे जब आता था शनिवार ,
चलते चलते पत्थरों मैं मारते थे ठोकर ,
कभी हसते गाते तो कभी चलते थे रोकर ,
कन्धों मैं बेगलिए हाथ मैं बोटेल पानी ,
किसे पता था बचपन की दोस्ती बिचड़ा देगी जवानी ,
याद आते हैं वो स्याही से रंगे हाथ,
क्या दिन थे वो जब करते थे हम लंच साथ ,
छुट्टी की घंटी सुनते ही वो क्लास से भाग केर आना ,
फिर हस्ते हस्ते से मिल जाना ,
काश वो दोस्त आज भी मिल जाते ,
दिन मैं फिर से बचपन के फूल खिल जाते ,
संजय...